Hi guys, welcome to another episode of Your Receipts, the minisodes where we answer your dilemmas, try and give you some advice.

Sometimes you correct us on Twitter and that's like...

Key word. Try.

I'm Phoebe Park.

Audrey, formerly known as Guyana's finest.

Melena Sanchez.

And Tolly Tee.

Yeah.

So the first dilemma is, hey ladies, hope you're doing well. I've recently discovered your podcast and I just want to say it's been getting me through my days at the office. I'm binge listening and I'm currently on episode 18. Oh. Realness and real topics. You all rock. She won't hear this for time then. Sorry, co- Oh, yeah. But it's like, oh yeah. When she hears it, I'm showing at help. Five kids, marry, divorce. I feel I've been enjoying episode 25. Okay, so a colleague of mine just recently started working at my company no longer than two months ago.

He is a very confident guy and he's not afraid to chat to anyone. In the space of a week,

he has familiarised himself with everybody at work and pretty much knows everyone's name at this

stage, which is crazy because I've been in the company almost two years and cannot say the same.

Anyway, he randomly started talking to me one time in the canteen.

It's so awkward for me because he is a big flirt and I don't really see him in that way. I'm very flattered, of course, because he is handsome, smart. But sadly, he is five foot nothing. Oh. Which is awful to say but true. He sends me an email every day to see how I am, which makes it even worse because his desk is facing my desk from a distance and I'm in his viewpoint.

He is constantly staring and it really makes me uncomfortable at work.

He also makes the odd visits to my desk to converse.

Oh my God.

That's so awkward.

It's all too much for work and my colleagues in my team are starting to tease me. He's travelling to Nigeria soon for his best friend's wedding. So he has been asking me the spots to visit. I am Nigerian, of course, and he is Caucasian. Oh, interesting. He height, sadly, is the biggest deal for me because I'm a tall woman. He hasn't really said he likes me, but I can easily tell. I'm friendly towards him and I hope he hasn't, he hasn't taken it the wrong way. I don't want to have a situation ship at work. I like to live my life as privately as possible. My question is, what signs could I give him to make it clear that I'm not into him? Thanks for your help and I hope to hear from you all soon. Don't flip back. Turn on you're out of office. But just to hear. Like, I just say he's not here. He's not here. He can see him like she's not here, bro. I'm currently on Paley. That is a good idea because you know what you're out of office. you can actually set it so set it. So set it so that only he can be in writing the message.

Don't cry. pay leave. That is a good idea because you know when you're out of office, you can actually set it so set it. So set it so that only he can see and write in the message, don't come

over it. Leave me alone, buff. Due to deadline, due to unforeseen deadlines, I'm unable to

convert. I am here but not here. I feel like you can be polite without actually taking

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