Hi guys. Welcome to a brand new episode of your receipts. Sorry I sound flustered because I'm extremely late and the girls have been waiting for 40 minutes. Hence why I'm doing the introduction.

Let's introduce ourselves.

Hi guys.

Everything has to be rushed. You don't get to be 40 minutes later and then rush us and you rush the team like we are on some kind of timeline.

Some countdown shoot. Yeah. No, no, no. Let's get into it. We can take time. Let's get into it. It's your girl, Tolly T. Just call me Audrey. And your mamma sitam Elena Sanchez. Ew. So, just quickly, before we get into your receipts, there was something that I saw on Instagram and I thought,

this is actually a cool question. Let me ask the girls. Okay. Okay. A man proposes to his woman with a receipt

of her $70,000 student loan debt being paid off in full in place of the ring. She thanks him but says that she still requires the ring before getting married. Is she unreasonable, ungrateful, smart or dumb? So would you be upset if someone proposed to you with that? No, I would not be upset. Someone paid off my 70 grand debt. I'll be very happy. But you'd still want the ring? The thing is, I'd be, okay, so this is the thing with men, yeah. Men are just extra. Do you know what I mean? It's like, if you're going to do that, that's a great gesture. But why is that in the replacement of my engagement ring? Engagement is engagement. There's certain protocol that you follow. It means you get on one knee,

you ask me to marry and you present me with a ring. Don't come and start switching up the traditions and putting something else in place. That can be separate. So it shouldn't be in place of an engagement because that's not an engagement. An engagement is you propose and you give me a ring. So obviously I'd be so grateful for that, But I'll just be like, this is just like random.

Like, why would you do this now?

Because obviously you're proposing to me a ring. So obviously I'd be so grateful for that, but I'll just be like, this is just

like random. Like, why would you do this now? Because obviously you're proposing to me with intention of marrying me. So then now what? You can wear a red in ring. That's how I see. I'll wear a ring when I get married. Like, but that's, where's my engagement ring then? I wouldn't me fast.

I would rather, you paid off some of it and used some of the money to also get me a ring.

No, I don't like that.

You can do both things. wouldn't be fast. I would rather, you paid off some of it and used some of the money to also get me a ring.

No, I don't like that. You can do both things. Babe, do you know what it's to not owe 70K? No, I definitely agree, but it's student loans. I see that as kind of different. No, I assume that's American. Yeah, then just do that. And then oppose another time. Like, I just, I don't know, there's a power element there that I'm not really feeling.

It's just like, if you're going to propose, propose, proposal is this. This is what an engagement is. If you want to do a kind gesture and pay my debts, pay my debts and don't call it. If he's doing it and saying, I got you a cheaper ring because I did this, then I would, that would, I would understand that. Don't not give me a ring and say, oh, because I paid off your debt, you're not getting a ring. They're two isolated things. If it was a birthday and it was a present, okay, cool. Right. Exactly. There's no protocol for birthday. I hear what you're going to say and I'd be extremely grateful and that's fine and we can wear a ring when we're married but my thing is

exactly the same as Audrey when it comes to engagement it's not like a present thing it's a ring

yeah that's a symbol of being engaged therefore that's what I want it's not you're not engaged then

if you don't have a ring you're not engaged oh god no but you're not because that's like

anybody coming up to you and being like,

I're engaged without the ring. The ring is the symbol of this engagement. So if I don't have that, yeah, don't get, don't get me wrong. I'd be so grateful. That's such an amazing gesture. But I just don't understand why we're doing it with the engagement. Like, it's just all very weird. My reaction, he would look at me like, you fucking ungrateful bitch.

I would be like, oh, well, thanks. But where's my ring? I'm actually speaking to it. Like, the thing is, even if you got me a cheap ring, that makes it the engagement. It's not about the amount of money you spend. It's about the fact that the ring represents an engagement. I think the engagement for me is that you've asked to marry me. So we're engaged. And I said yes. Yeah, but we're engaged. But no one knows that you're engaged if you don't have a ring. No, but you're not though. You're not engaged if you don't have a ring. You're not.

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