Hey, I want to tell you up top that this episode is about one night stands.

So it's a little sexier than usual.

The kind of thing you want to listen to when there's only adults around.

But before we get to your one night stand stories, I want to ask for your help for another

episode that we're working on.

Joining me to share more is our executive producer, Liliana Maria Percy Ruiz.

And Liliana Maria, the idea for this episode came from you after you rewatched Bull Durham,

right?

Yes, probably the 30th time at the birth list that I've seen Bull Durham.

But this time around, I was watching it and something donned on me for the first time,

which is that the character that Susan Sarandon plays, whether consciously or unconsciously,

was my sexual role model.

And I had been living in her footsteps essentially since I was a teenager when I first saw the

movie. And I grew up in a house that sex was always portrayed as an obligation, particularly

for women.

It's something that my mother said you had to do to please the man, but that you never enjoyed

it.

And I still remember the first time that I watched Bull Durham and realizing that it could

be something different, that there was the possibility of sex as a pleasant experience

for women.

And one that we could drive and that we ourselves could initiate and be powerful in.

And enjoy.

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