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Today's question comes from Susie and Michigan. My husband and I have recently become debt-free, including our house.

My siblings know this and have started coaching their toddlers to call us big money.

They encourage their children to say things like,

hey, big money, we want to go to Disney so you can go and pay for,

so can you go and pay for us?

We thought it was a joke at first,

but now it happens all the time.

We've told them that we prefer to be called aunt and uncle,

but nothing changes for family gatherings. It's assumed that we will host be called aunt and uncle, but nothing changes. For family gatherings,

it's assumed that we will host the celebrations at our house with no offers to contribute.

I don't mind having people over, but I feel like this behavior is disrespectful. How do we approach

this? Some of my siblings are very frugal. Fragile. Thank you. I was going to say frugal. Emotionally wise and

blow things out of proportion. They're fragile. I wish they were frugal. I wish the other word

was true, but it's not. If you're fragile and you send your kids in to say stupid things to

adults, you better be expect to have your little fragile broken.

Okay, we're probably going to have different approaches to the situation.

Yeah.

It's not the kid's fault, but yeah, I'm probably going to sit down with sis and go, hey, your kids being a brat, stop it.

Seriously.

Yeah, that's going to probably be our different approach.

Okay, Rachel, what's the nice version?

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