Your Hesitation is Costing You Millions (How to Say YES and Live MORE)

Style Your Mind Podcast

Cara Alwill

Girlboss, Confidence, Selfimprovement, Positivethoughts, Education, Self-improvement, Personaldevelopment, Raiseyourvibration, Bosslady, Motivation, Girlpower, Lifecoach, Entrepreneurship, Empoweringwomen, Liveyourbestlife, Mindfulness, Selfhelp, Manifestation, Business, Inspiration, Inspiring

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🗓️ 19 July 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

What if your next level isn’t about working harder...but simply saying yes to you?

In today’s episode, we’re talking about what it really means to invest in yourself—not just financially, but energetically. I’ll share how the most pivotal moments of my life and business were born from one brave decision: putting myself in powerful rooms with powerful women. Women who saw me. Mirrored my magic back to me. Held the vision when I was still shaky.

We’ll get into how to stop second-guessing your power, why putting yourself in powerful rooms with powerful women is the most profitable move you can make, and what it actually means to back your next era with boldness.

If you're ready to move like the woman you're becoming—not the one you’ve outgrown—this is your episode.

This is your reminder that you don’t need to be “ready.” You just need to be willing.

EXCLUSIVE INVITE: We’re entering a new era—of softness, power, intuition, and bold, unapologetic moves. If you've been craving sisterhood, strategy, and the kind of energetic upgrade that shifts your entire frequency...

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You’re not meant to figure it all out alone. You’re meant to be poured into, babe.

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0:00.5	Hi guys, welcome back to the show. You are listening to Kara says it all. I'm your host, Kara.
0:06.1	So excited to be here with you this morning. I'm sitting here in my silky green PJs with my
0:12.9	Nespresso and my dog sleeping at my feet. And I was looking at my phone at pictures from last night.
0:20.2	And I had this kind of like moment
0:23.4	where I was like, wow, I'm so glad that I went out last night. And it got me thinking about
0:29.9	the power of yes and saying yes to yourself, even when you know you're going to be pushed
0:37.3	outside of your comfort zone a little bit, even when you know you're going to be pushed outside of your comfort zone a little bit,
0:39.7	even when you can think of a million reasons to say no. So let me backtrack a little bit. Last week was
0:45.6	crazy busy. In the best way, I was supporting my roster of private clients. I was negotiating a publishing deal for my
0:56.9	audiobooks. I was outlining a brand new book that I'm working on that I am so excited about
1:01.8	that I will share more on soon. Just doing a million things, like writing sales copy for a new
1:07.2	mastermind that I'm launching, so many things, navigating personal stuff, some big changes in my life that are also really thrilling,
1:15.0	but also like big, like life-changing big.
1:18.9	All of that to say.
1:20.1	It would have been really easy last night to blast my air conditioner because it's been hot as hell here in New York.
1:26.5	Order some DoorDash,
1:28.4	get lost in the latest Bravo offering. I'm watching The Valley, by the way. I don't
1:34.6	if anyone's into that. But it would have been really easy to just do that. But my friend,
1:39.6	Blaine, who is a good friend of mine, she's a founder of New York Champaign Week, she throws all
1:43.9	these events. So she's like the opposite of me. She's out hosting events like four or five nights a week. And I go to a lot of them and I love to go to them and they're always fabulous. But it was, you know, that I was in that poll last night, that push and pull of like, oh, I could just stay home in my pajamas and just be cozy, or I could get dressed up and go and celebrate National Caviar Day with her,
2:07.5	which, I mean, hi, who's going to say no to that, right?
2:10.5	Cavier and champagne, yes, please.
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