Some people go for conquest with swords and guns.

Some people go with checkbooks and cats.

On the emotional level, if you try this, we call this a love affair.

Love is not a relationship.

A relationship is a different thing.

If you're willing, you can become love.

You can make your emotion into a very sweet space.

Some teachers, some gurus, some guy, they'll say, you know, you can love, but you must be detached.

You must love, but it cannot be conditioner.

It should be unconditional.

And so there's versions of it.

I just want to know.

A simple way of making you keep coming back to me is to give you something that you cannot do.

To give you a teaching, which you can never do.

You must love, but you must be detached.

Now you have to keep coming back to me for consultation.

Endlessly.

I'm saying throw yourself into your love affair and die into it.

Something will happen.

Something worthwhile will happen if you're willing to die into the process.

Not just anything, whether it's your work or your life or your love of whatever.

If you do not know how to throw your entire self into it,

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