This is Help Wanted, the show that makes your work work for you. I'm Jason Pfizer,

editor-in-chief of Entrepreneur magazine.

And I'm money expert Nicole Lappin. On Tuesdays, Jason and I answer the helpline and help

callers solve their work problems. And on Thursdays, I give you one way to improve your work and build a career or company you love.

And it starts now.

Okay, Nicole, I'm going to ask you the same question, but in two ways. The first is very simple, and then the second one is this like long

complicated personal journey you ready for it yeah which one am I getting you getting both

oh great okay this is what it means to be friends with me, is to just get it all.

All right, the simple first is when somebody does you wrong in some way,

professionally or personally, although I think we'll start professionally.

Do you tell them, hey, that was a jerk thing.

That was not the way to do it.

Or when do you tell them?

Because obviously you don't always tell them.

Right.

Or do you just keep it to yourself or how do you do it?

So that's the question. Okay now I'll tell you the longer personal journey here. So there are a couple phases of

jerkiness to this. Phase number one is this.

There was a guy, expert guy.

We'll just call them Steve.

Steve is an expert guy.

He's got a book.

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