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All right, y'all, this week we are talking, giving feedback to your partner, accepting honest feedback, working through it, how to be honest,

we're doing a lot of things. So let's get right into the letter. Hi, ladies, love you both,

and this podcast has helped me become more confident in dating and in the bedroom. I'm a 44-year-old single mom. I recently

ended a 22-year relationship about two years ago. In my previous relationship, I never had a problem

making my partner come from oral sex. But I haven't since then. I've been dating for two years and I've had seven

partners. Most will stop me. Most will stop me five minutes in for sex. I can't tell if they

stop me because it's great and they don't want to finish early or if they think it's terrible and just

want it to stop. One of my partners

seems to love it, and when we're high, I've spent as long as two hours down there. I am a

giver and enjoy oral sex, so I didn't even realize I was down there that long. He's now requesting

that two-hour head every time. He's a brutally honest person, so I don't think

he would lie about enjoying it, but I could go down on him for 30 minutes and he still won't finish.

Am I boring when I give head? My ex had me super insecure about sex. I've asked for feedback

from others and I don't get much. I love giving head so much, but I want to know that the man is actually enjoying it. Here are her questions. Question number one, do you have any good oral sex tips? And question number two, what's the best way to ask for feedback to make the other person feel comfortable enough to be honest with you?

I'm still trying to figure out this whole dating thing.

Thank you, ladies.

So let's actually start with, let's end with good oral sex tips.

Let's start with the problem at hand is that she wants feedback from her partners because she's insecure now

about feeling if she's even doing a good job. I feel like if they are rushing you to stop,

then it probably ain't that good. Because I'm not going to lie, I do that with head. I'd be tired

a second day. Well, I do that with head. Like, if I don't really feel like it's doing much down there, I want, I want to just get

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