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Now, let's get into it. That's a stress. What if he was like, baby, I'm shrug. I just want to bend over, not a finger, not a tongue, not a dildo. He just want a little chili pepper in his ass. I mean, I'm going to, but it doesn't mean that I'm necessarily going to, you are definitely not someone that I'm going to be in a relationship with.

Wait a minute.

She's judging.

Oh, wait. Wait, can we talk about that? Can we talk about then? Is there, because people ask me that about pegging. Like, wait, you would be with a guy that lets you do that? I'm like, yeah, that would be nice. there are certain kinks that if a man brings up

makes him ineligible to be a partner.

To be with me.

Why? I'm like, yeah, that would be nice. There are certain kinks that if a man brings up makes him ineligible to be a partner.

To be with me.

Why?

Like what?

What are some?

I'm not, I'm not being with someone that I'm fucking an ass. I'm just not. Okay. Same. I'm not. I think one king for me, which is probably really strange for others, but I wouldn't be with someone who, like,

I don't know what the name of it is, but the ones that want to be in, like, diapers and be on the floor. Oh, I'm not. I couldn't know. Okay. It's a hard note. That's a hard no. But I can have a trip like that, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody like that. And this is going to be, y''all, y'all listening or probably on you? You know, I could probably do that. Like, depending on the drunk night, like, how many shrooms, how many, whatever. I could do, I could do, I could do, I could do, like, scat play, pissing, peg and all that. I think for me, you know, we're not going to get it. Her face. You know what? You know my line would draw at cross-dressing. I don't think I could be with, because I like masculinity so much, with men, I don't think I could be with a man who wants to put on fishnets and thongs and dresses. I couldn't do that either. I couldn't do that. Like, I think that that would actually make me unattracted to it. Is this so funny how, like, people create, like, where everyone's boundary is? You're like, he can shit on me, but he cannot wear hair stockings. Like, niggins, it's just so weird. I'm like, how are you saying? No, no, no, no. I'm just saying as humans, we rationalize what is okay to us and acceptable to us. And then the other things

is like hard stuff. I'm comfortable with. I'll just think it's the same thing, right,

as like what we're into even physically. No? Like, it's our... We're willing to do sexually.

It's a same concept.

But it's just so funny how everybody has these different boundaries and it's like, oh, no, I would... Yeah. But I would be turned off. I think that's when you get into, like, what turns you on and what turns you off. Yeah. Like, in the diaper on the floor or you had a boat on. spicy and dried yeah

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