You've Already Missed Your Best Chance at Good Sex Today
HELP! I Suck at Dating
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3.8 • 4.5K Ratings
🗓️ 30 May 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
Timing is apparently everything when it comes to “successful sex” according to a sleep expert and psychologist who has been studying hormone levels for more than 2 decades. This researcher says our hormones are literally the opposite of what we need for good sex at the time MOST couples have sex: right before bed. We go over when the best time to connect is for both women and men, and what to do if he’s a night owl and she’s a morning person.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:02.6 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:06.2 | Hey there, everybody. |
| 0:07.5 | It is Saturday, May 30th, and whatever you do, do not have sex tonight. |
| 0:14.4 | You should have already had it this morning. |
| 0:16.6 | And with that, welcome to this episode of Amy and T.J. |
| 0:19.1 | An episode that Groves here has been pretty |
| 0:22.6 | excited to get into. I haven't done a deep dive into this one, but they're telling us Robs |
| 0:28.5 | that having sex at night is not the best way to have good sex. Yeah. Yes. Yes, this comes |
| 0:35.5 | from a psychologist and a sleep expert. His name is Dr. Michael |
| 0:39.8 | Bruce. I don't know if I'm saying his name correctly, but he posted something on X this month. |
| 0:46.4 | He says, I've been studying sleep for more than 20 years. He's a sleep expert, not a sex expert, right? |
| 0:51.9 | But he says what he studies is the hormones, what makes for good sleep, and there are only two things you do in bed. |
| 1:00.4 | Have sex and sleep. |
| 1:02.4 | And so the hormones involved with both are something he's been studying, and he said, everyone's doing it wrong. |
| 1:10.3 | They're doing it wrong. And when he say he's doing it wrong. They're doing it wrong. |
| 1:11.7 | And when he says he's doing it wrong, you're having sex at the wrong time. |
| 1:14.1 | Is that right? |
| 1:14.6 | Timing is everything according to this doctor. |
| 1:18.2 | Okay, I'm listening. |
| 1:19.2 | Okay, so research shows, can you guess there is an hour where most people are intimate? |
| 1:26.3 | This is the hour where almost all people, |
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