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So my question is, how do my husband and I navigate the very strange relationship we now have

with his family after multiple instances of disloyalty and dishonesty? So my father-in-law need to

repay a loan of $100,000 to us and hasn't done it yet.

It's been two years now.

And four months ago, the in-laws and my husband wanted to start a new business.

They actually own a family business.

And that was around the time when we moved into our new home.

They saw the house and a couple of days later asked my husband to put our house up as their

loan guarantee for their new business, as it was worth around $2 million.

And, oh, my husband wouldn't be the business owner, but just an employee.

So since then, the relationship...

I assume your husband said no.

My husband went...

He was so angry.

He said, not only no, but now pay us back $100,000 straight away.

And now he's just keeping distancing himself from them,

which I totally understand. but how do we navigate

this situation? How do we get the $100,000 back? I have no idea. Wow. When the, uh, is there any

documentation or legal contracts on the $100,000 or was this a handshake?

Oh, no, when we did the bank transfer, it literally showed up as loan to X, Y, Z.

That doesn't matter.

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