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Subject, you're single unless you're married is the subject.

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Dear Stephen Shirley, I am 36 years old,

and I've been in a great relationship for four years.

A year ago, I noticed a change in my man and changes in our sex life.

If I initiated sex, he made up excuses like he has acid reflux and he scared sex might give him a heart attack.

Then I saw a text on his phone that said, I love you too. I asked about it and he said he texted her some relationship advice that was only responding to her. He said it's no big deal to love a friend without

romantic involvement. I told him if he continued to send messages like that, he was going to need some

relationship advice too. After that, he changed his password to his fingerprint to access his phone.

So I had to be creative to find out if he was sneaking around with another

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