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Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

You’re Not Your Spouse’s Holy Spirit

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2026

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

What if you took a second to pray for your spouse before criticizing him or her? Jim Daly joins Ron and Deb DeArmond on why you cannot be your spouse's Holy Spirit. They also tell a beautiful story of how Ron proposed to her again decades after they'd gotten married. Then, Erin explains why it's good to remind your mate, "you're still the one."

 

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0:00.0

Help show kids the importance of marriage, family, and faith in Christ.

0:04.6

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0:09.1

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0:11.2

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0:17.4

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0:20.2

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0:33.6

Let's pretend your spouse irritated you the other day or last night or this morning,

0:40.8

and your response is to offer some constructive criticism.

0:45.2

Let us know how that goes.

0:46.7

Leave a note in the comments for the show notes page.

0:50.2

But actually, what if you prayed?

0:52.2

What if you took opportunity right then and there to,

0:55.0

instead of criticizing, just quietly pray for your spouse? I'm John Fuller. We're going to be talking

1:00.3

about prayer today with Greg and Aaron Smalley. And we're going to kick off now with a conversation

1:05.3

that Jim Daly had on his show, Focus on the Family. He spoke with Ron and Deb D. Armand, and they share about how

1:12.8

they've navigated frustrating moments in their relationship. You tell couples that you can't be

1:18.6

each other's Holy Spirit. Okay, that's the dagger of the program right there, because we do that in

1:24.2

marriage. We have expectations. We know you can do better because I do better in that area.

1:30.6

You could be doing better in that area.

1:32.6

And I'm in a fact trying to be the Holy Spirit in your life.

1:35.6

So speak to that straight.

1:38.0

Let me know why that's not a good approach.

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