Nobody told me the road would be easy and I don't believe he's brought me this far to leave me.

That's a very, very good one.

Oh, that is a good song.

You know, like, this just reminded me of this because of Mary Mary. Yeah. Because Erica Campbell was on Dear Future Wifi, the podcast. Okay, yeah. I think I've spoken about it before. Yeah. I love that podcast. Like, genuinely. I remember, I think I introduced it. I don't know if you remember ages ago when I introduced the concept. And we were just like, this is crazy because obviously his past and why he started the show. Yeah. Why did he start the show? Because he was a cheater. He cheated on his wife several times and then he was like, you know, working on himself, going to be a better man, blah, blah, blah. Is he still with that said, said, right? No. And now he's just like, yeah, I did a podcast because dear future wifey. To his future wife writes her a letter Every episode But what made me laugh I'll go back to why I even brought this up In the first place Yeah But what made me laugh is I don't know if you guys know The aunties pod No no it's not that one There's a UK based Oh there's another podcast It's two women They're best friends A bit older than us. And they're based in the US. And I cannot remember. They call themselves aunties, but that's not the name of their pod. Anyway, this guy, what's his name? I don't know. I don't even know his name. I must know it. I just forgot him. From the deafute, the, the host. He went on to their podcast and basically they were just talking about like how like

their older like in their mid-30s I think and like they haven't met their

spouses yet and like how tough that can be.

And then they were asking him like, do men also go through that?

Like do men also feel that pressure sometimes?

And he was like, what do you mean?

I write a letter to my future

wife every episode i've got i've got near enough 300 letters still ain't got no women

we can have to find the energy to find something to say and i was like you know what it's actually

so true like we all go through the same things maybe women just are more open about it i just i feel

like women feel like we have a limited a limited time especially if you want the the family the

children yeah i'm sure if none of us wanted kids wouldn't be there'd be less pressure

you know it's crazy.

When I think about my future partner, I never think about the fact that I'm getting older

and kids.

That's not what it is.

I think I just have a desire to be looked after.

No, me too, but I'm saying that for me, but I'm saying that for me, for me, like,

me finding someone is definitely because I don't want, the thought of pregnancy already scares me.

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