Welcome to the Knowledge for Men podcast where strong men come to rise as grounded leaders,

lovers, and creators of their world. This is the next level.

Welcome back to the show, Andrew Ferribee here. I'm your guide for this unapologetically real episode titled,

You're Not in Love, you're just afraid to be alone. Let's dive in. Let's call it what it is. You didn't fall in love. You fell into a coping mechanism with a pulse. It's not heartbreak. it's ego death, and that's why you confuse chaos

for chemistry. If that stings, good. It's supposed to, because this episode isn't here to sugarcoat

your coping mechanisms. It's here to rip the mask off the story you've been telling yourself.

That clinging to her is love, that the panic, the jealousy, the highs and lows somehow prove

it's real. The chaos isn't passion. It's your nervous system begging for peace. Let me make this

brutally clear. The butterflies you feel, that's your trauma remembering something familiar.

No, brother, that's not love. That's avoidance. that's fear dressed up in romance, that's addiction

to distraction.

If you're stuck in a loop with someone who only sees you when they feel like it, or still

obsessing over a ghost who isn't even in your life anymore, or telling yourself she's

the one, when deep down you know she's just filling the silence.

Then this isn't about her.

She wasn't your soulmate.

She was your sedative.

And if you're honest, you'll admit it.

You've just never learned how to sit in the silence of your own soul.

This is your wake-up call.

You don't need another hit of her attention.

You need to come home to yourself.

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