So on the subject of pain, but there's a biochemical reason for BDSM desires, and scientists

say, and I can tell you, there is a neurological constitution of the brain's pain and reward

systems, meaning that a little pain might enhance pleasure because our brain releases

the same biochemicals during pain and sex.

They're very closely linked.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

So when you hear the words BDSM and Kink, what comes to mind?

Lather, whips?

Well, the truth is, all of us are a little kinky.

You may just not have realized yet.

That's why today's episode is part one of a two-part BDSM and Kink education series where

I helped you mystify this world and give you fun, safe options for exploring.

Dungeons optional.

First, we're defining our terms and getting grasp on Kink and BDSM, including what the

hell BDSM actually means.

Then we're taking a look at our core desires to help you identify yours and then talk

you out the psychology of power and play.

Finally, I'm going to give you some entry-level ways to bring Kink to the bedroom, whether

you're coupled or single and answering all your kinky sex questions.

Intentions with Emily for each episode join me in sending an intention.

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