You're Disconnected From Yourself: Why You Keep Second-Guessing Everything
The Purpose Show
Allie Casazza
4.6 • 4.5K Ratings
🗓️ 21 June 2026
⏱️ 43 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
If you keep second-guessing yourself, overthinking every decision, asking everyone else what you should do, or feeling like you don't know what you want anymore, this episode is going to hit.
In this episode, Allie breaks down why you may feel disconnected from yourself, why decision-making feels so heavy, and why you keep talking yourself out of what you want.
This isn't because you're weak, indecisive, or broken. It's often because you've spent years overriding your own instincts, people-pleasing, reading the room, choosing what makes sense over what feels true, and outsourcing your inner authority.
You'll learn why overthinking, second-guessing, self-doubt, and constantly needing reassurance can be signs that you've lost connection with your own inner knowing, and how that disconnection impacts your follow-through, confidence, self-trust, routines, and ability to become the woman you actually want to be.
If you struggle with self-trust, people-pleasing, indecision, overthinking, self-sabotage, not knowing what you want, or making plans you don't follow through on, this episode will help you understand what's really happening underneath the pattern.
And if you're ready to stop starting over and become the woman who actually follows through, come to Allie's free live class Tuesday at 11am PT:
Stop Starting Over: The 5 Steps to Becoming the Woman Who Follows Through
Grab the link in the show notes or comment SENDLINK on Instagram and Allie will send it to you.
Rooting for you!
xo Allie
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Before we get into today's topic, I want to say something really important. If you are tired of being |
| 0:07.8 | self-aware enough to know exactly what pattern you're in, that you keep saying you're going to do |
| 0:14.4 | these important things and then starting and stopping and not doing it. And it's been months, |
| 0:20.5 | maybe years that you've been stuck in that pattern. |
| 0:22.6 | But you're still watching yourself repeat it anyway. |
| 0:26.6 | I want you in my live class that's happening this coming Tuesday. |
| 0:30.6 | It is completely free. It is live. I will be there with you. |
| 0:33.6 | And it is going to shift you in ways that I can pretty much guarantee nothing has ever |
| 0:40.2 | shifted you before. That pattern I just painted the picture of is a very specific kind of |
| 0:47.2 | exhausting, like knowing what you should do, knowing what you want, knowing the version of you |
| 0:53.0 | you're trying to become and the results you want |
| 0:55.1 | in your body, your money, your relationships, your life, whatever, your house, anything. |
| 1:00.1 | And then still somehow ending up back in the old pattern again and again. |
| 1:05.8 | And it is not because you're lazy or because you need another motivational speech. |
| 1:10.7 | And it's definitely not because you need to shame yourself into another restart. |
| 1:13.6 | It is because follow through as an identity pattern. |
| 1:18.6 | And in this live class, it's called Stop Starting Over, okay, the five steps to become the woman who follows through. |
| 1:24.6 | I am going to show you from a neuroscience perspective exactly what needs to shift so consistency becomes normal for you |
| 1:32.7 | and this is designed for very busy overburdened women living chaotic lives |
| 1:38.3 | with work and life and business and kids and whatever so this isn't going to be |
| 1:42.4 | something time heavy or overwhelming. It's an |
| 1:45.8 | hour of your life. This shitty pattern has taken years from you. Move things around and come live |
... |
Transcript will be available on the free plan in 21 days. Upgrade to see the full transcript now.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Allie Casazza, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Allie Casazza and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.

