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WTF is on my Mind?!

You’re Dead to Me - Shunning as Social Control

WTF is on my Mind?!

Mark Vicente

True Crime, Film, Society & Culture, Documentary, Nxivm, Cult, Philosophy, Narcissistic Abuse, Tv & Film, Psychology, Television, Narcissism, Coercion, Coercive Control

4.8706 Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of WTF Is On My Mind?!, Mark Vicente pulls back the curtain on one of the most insidious tools of social control: shunning — not just as a personal act of rejection, but as a systemic, psychological weapon masquerading as moral high ground. This isn’t just about cults. It’s about how cult behavior has gone mainstream — how families, political factions, media outlets, and activist circles now use public exile and cold silence to punish dissent and demand conformity. Drawing on...

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0:00.0

My name is Mark Vissente. I'm a director, producer, writer, and troublemaker. I'm most known as the director of the film What the Bleep Do We Know, and as one of the next-team whistleblowers featured in the HBO series, The VAL. Let's just say, I know a thing or two about cults. I don't consider myself a cult expert, but I'm definitely an expert in being screwed over, waking up, and

0:21.7

knowing how to spot them.

0:23.4

And let me tell you, they're everywhere.

0:26.2

My mission is to help people see patterns of abuse across multiple contexts.

0:30.5

From personal to family, to group to societal, it's all the same pattern at every scale.

0:36.5

As you'll hear, I have a pretty salty approach to most things.

0:39.8

So there might be some blasphemy.

0:41.6

One or two sacred cows might get knocked over, and there'll likely be some foul language.

0:46.5

You never quite know what you're going to get, because it really does depend on what the

0:51.3

fuck is on my mind.

0:53.1

Well, hello everybody.

0:54.4

Welcome back.

0:55.2

Today is the last podcast episode that I will be recording in Portugal before we head

1:00.6

back to the U.S.

1:01.5

The next episode, I will be recording in the United States of America.

1:05.7

I am going to chat about some things that might ruffle some feathers. What I'm going to ask my

1:14.8

audience to do is to pay particular attention to if you feel triggered, if you feel upset,

1:20.8

if you feel like you want to call me names, because I understand that a small percentage of

1:25.9

you may say, oh, you know, he's the problem.

1:28.2

But I think it's valuable to notice, like, how we respond.

1:32.0

Because, like, when I was in a cult, anybody who said something that sounded like it was

1:38.0

criticizing the cult or the leader or the doctrine or the ideology, I would want to shut them down in my mind.

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