You Only Know The Old Me
We Talk Back
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 737 Ratings
🗓️ 21 May 2026
⏱️ 79 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another.
The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:04.3 | Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of IHart Radio and the Black Effect Network. |
| 0:10.8 | Talk to talk to them. |
| 0:13.2 | We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back. |
| 0:20.0 | What's up, y'all? |
| 0:21.0 | I'm a.J. |
| 0:21.9 | Holiday. |
| 0:22.7 | What's our T.S. |
| 0:24.1 | Scam it assed. |
| 0:26.0 | I wish. |
| 0:27.5 | I wish that was... |
| 0:28.7 | I wish I knew how to do like a safe scam, you know, where people weren't affected, only corporations. |
| 0:37.2 | Oh, there's plenty scams like that, but that's how you get the big time. |
| 0:40.4 | Big money, big time. |
| 0:42.4 | Yeah. |
| 0:43.8 | I would prefer to do that than like scamming the everyday people out of their money, you know? |
| 0:49.2 | But I love y'all, hey. |
| 0:51.4 | Thank y'all for two with me again. |
| 0:54.0 | How's your weekend, AJ? j girl i have been sick for |
| 0:57.4 | several days i don't know what the fuck is outside and last weekend um last week i talked about going to this |
| 1:03.6 | italian restaurant that's really all i did and then yoga and i have i started feeling like maybe sick |
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