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free and some say the advice is worth exactly what you pay for it. Elizabeth is with us in Dallas,

high Elizabeth. Welcome to the Ramsey show. Hello, how are you? Great. What's up?

Hi, so I have a question. I've been with my partner and boyfriend for seven years and we have

two small children together and I briefly thought of the fact that we should get married and actually

have one baby count and do everything together and he says that he doesn't want to do that. But

why? Why? Why? He doesn't want to do marriage. He says because he's already previously been married

and he's just not he's just not going to do it. Why does he think he's not married now?

I'm not sure. He's got all these got everything. You have to do with marriage right now.

So now my next question is he gets sick. He gets sick. He wants you to make him chicken soup, right?

Yes. Yeah. What's the difference in this marriage? I'm confused. Well,

he says that he's not interested that either accept him or what should we do?

So Elizabeth, I want you to hear what he's actually telling you. He's telling you he went all in on

somebody once and got hurt or broke up with or whatever and he's looking at you after seven

years and two children and saying you're not worth that. I'd rather have my illusion of

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