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I am trying to get on the same page with spending with my girlfriend. We just recently, in the

past couple months, we did move in together and I've been happy to cover all the necessity

bills, rent, groceries, etc cetera. But as of more recently,

I have not been able to get on the same page. I have her, she has a card of mine that she

uses for groceries expenses, but I've noticed a lot of charges that I can't keep up with.

And I brought it keep up with.

And I brought it to her attention and every time I do, we get into a fight.

So I need, I'm just calling, how can, what am I doing wrong?

How can I get on the same page?

Does she work?

She, yes, so she works and she makes a decent amount as well.

She has some other debts that she's paying.

She has some student loans.

She has a car payment.

I don't have any debt aside from the debt that would be spent on that car that she

uses that I brought up to her attention.

And what does she say when you bring it up? You say, we keep getting in a fight about it.

What is, what's like the dialogue? What's being said?

So, for example, at the end of this past month, there was $1,900 in between Target and shopping.

And I mean, she's not shopping necessarily personal buying shoes and bags.

It's expenses that are for, you know, home and decoration.

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