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Guaranteed Human. You literally moved me out the house, and then you wrote a letter to me in 2020 to break it off with me. Wait, he broke up with you with a letter? Not a four-page. No, no, no. It was not four pages. It was 47. What? Wait, he broke it with you with a book? A 47 page letter? A book? A book. What are some of the highlights of the letters that made you? This was a chapter. When you were reading it, I'm sure it's too long, but what are some of the things that made you to get like, what the, the, 47 pages? First of all, he tried to isolate me with the letter. The first page, he said, read this when you are alone and by yourself.

Just remember, you ask for this. isolate me with the letter. The first page he said read this when you are alone and by yourself.

Just remember you ask for this. Now what he meant by that was for an entire year all of 2019. I had been asking him questions about what was going on because I already knew that we were

uncoupling because I felt that I noticed

signs when the is trying to avoid me right and he was very emotionally avoidant right so for a

whole year stop answering my emails text messages calls and would check in when he wanted to but

how is that so you already were living apart?

Yeah, because he moved me out the house while I was out of town.

So this was before the divorce?

Yes.

Okay.

This was in 2019 and April, but I was on tour.

So I was moving around doing my tour.

Was your relationship and a happy point?

Was it a shock?

The moving me out while I was out of town was a shock because it completely turned my world upside down.

And he also like displaced me with a person we have moved in with us who was houseless.

Now, I wasn't houseless because I got my family in Chicago.

So that's where I went back to.

But you're my husband and we're living together and you just uproot my whole life. It's a whole lot behind that. But then he started like dropping letters on me, right, to explain things. And in one of his letters, his whole reasoning from us moving out was, well, you said you never had your own. I want you to have your own. I want you to grow. But really it was like he wanted his own space. He wanted his own thing. He didn't want to have to be responsible for

somebody because he's their husband. Because he would always say things like, I'm not doing this for you

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