When you invest a lot of emotion, put yourself in a situation where you can be hurt worse.

You know the old line, my wife ran away with my best friend and I'm sure gonna miss him.

That's a funny joke, but only if you don't love her.

Or the old T-shirt that the bikers used to ride, used to wear.

If you can read this shirt, the bitch fell off.

Well, that's not how I refer to my wife because I respect and cherish and honor her.

That's not a joke to me.

It's serious.

It's a mother of my kids, my life partner, my wife, and everything the Bible and my parents

and my belief system tell me she is.

She is the queen bee.

She is honored, respected, to hold him.

So when you invest in the process, you run the risk of getting hurt worse.

You see the person that really just tunes into the radio to get the sports course

from last night?

Now he gets really upset when his team drafts a player that he doesn't think is gonna

help the team.

And he gets really upset when his team doesn't make the playoffs or loses the championship.

And he gets really excited when they win and he drives around and he's got their logo

on the back in his hole, because the rich guy in his town that paid people to come

and wear the jersey of that city, that the people cheer for, that guy that doesn't live

there, never will live there when all this is over, but he gets paid to wear that jersey

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