4.7 • 870 Ratings
🗓️ 11 March 2019
⏱️ 10 minutes
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I often find myself giving other’s opinions, especially a stranger’s, more value over what I find valuable or purposeful. In this episode I introduce and toss around a few thought processes that help me defeat falling into that trap.
Who has authority over how we feel? Who lends the ultimate approval on what it is that fills us with purpose or value? Is it your ‘why’ or is it someone else’s ‘why’ that gives us energy and direction? If it isn’t each of us ourself, then why are we always looking for the thumbs up from other’s to be our authentic selves and hesitate to be when we receive a frown; especially from a stranger?
Being conscious and aware when someone else is making you feel guilty for doing right, being good, or enjoying what moves you will empower you to refuse being a victim or held captive by a weaker person.
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0:00.0 | Hey good morning Spartans, Brian Sean Tust here on the Spartan Up podcast. |
0:04.0 | I'll be coming at you every Monday now with a new show called Spartan Stand. |
0:08.5 | Here I'm going to leverage 21 years of a Marine Corps career and a few other endeavors I've had that will help you take a stand. |
0:15.0 | Take a stand for yourself, |
0:17.0 | take a stand for your happiness, |
0:18.0 | and take a stand for success. |
0:20.0 | So the first episode we're going to talk about |
0:22.0 | is not needing permission to be yourself. all hyper aware or maybe not all of us I am at least hyper aware of am I living a |
0:36.3 | purpose-filled life how do you live a purpose-filled life people are flooding the |
0:41.0 | bookshelves with tips and tricks or strategies or things that you need to do to find |
0:46.4 | your way, what's your why, live a purpose-filled life, what's your purpose. |
0:51.6 | And all great stuff, all great stuff all great stuff and I've spent a lot of time |
0:55.9 | thinking about it why can't I find my purpose why can't I stick with the purpose that |
1:02.0 | I thought I had and I've drifted into two little |
1:07.2 | avenues sort of parallel but maybe not quite so much and in the first one is I started asking like well who's |
1:14.7 | who's authority is whose whose purpose isn't it's my purpose I'm trying to live my |
1:20.6 | purpose filled life so whose authority then is it to give me that purpose? |
1:26.7 | Whose authority is for to approve whether or not my purpose is good or not? |
1:31.7 | I mean, it's mine. If it's nobody else is but |
1:35.0 | mine, then why am I always constantly seeking somebody else's approval for what I'm doing and that comes in the term of feedback, |
1:46.0 | hey good job, good job, you're doing well or it comes in the feedback of |
1:50.0 | oh I don't think you should be doing that, you're not not normal and it's like well why and the funny |
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