Hey everyone, it's Shaguel Breeney Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, raw, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future with the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table? Baby, I am the table.

Fuck yourself a little bit more than that, ladies.

Come on.

Dusts settles, queens don't.

And don't forget, know your worth and then attacks.

Period.

So today's topic is going to be a little bit, only a tiny, tiny bit controversial.

But you guys know me. I'm not a judgmental person i'm

not here to judge anyone anything i talk about on my channel is because i've been through myself

either i did do it or i didn't do it okay and i'm here to share the wisdom and if i was around when i was

younger i would pay me a million pounds for this So today we are talking about why you don't

have to go through the whole phase. So let's talk about the phase. I feel like there's so

many different seasons and different moments in people's life where they feel like it's necessary

to go through the phase. One of the categories is when you're just very young and you're just looking for love

in all the wrong places. That was my story. I went through the phase from 14 to 16 because I just

wanted love. I just wanted attention. I wanted male affection and I thought the way to do it

was to give my body away because if they like me sexually, then they're going to love me.

I was selling my body for what I thought was love. And it wasn't. And I am not afraid to talk about that moment in my life because I'm not that person anymore.

And if you had gone through that phase, you're a completely different person. And when we know better, we do better. Another time in

young women's life when they go through the phase or they feel like they have to go through

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