Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Does saying goodbye have to be so scary?

As human beings, we are not wired for change.

We're not wired for discomfort.

Our brain's number one job is to keep us safe and secure, which is why we constantly

seek out and will do anything to remain in the familiar.

But my friends, very few good things take us to our next level when they are familiar.

When I was interviewed a little while ago when I spoke about divorce, I remember saying,

very, very few times in our life, if ever we ever say to ourselves I just wish I stayed six

months longer I wish I just stuck it out sucked it up tried harder and just remained

in that situation for six more months, three more months,

one more year, two more years, whatever the time frame is.

Maybe that's true for you right now in some form of relationship. Maybe it's true for you in a job that you just know isn't right for you.

Often when we look back in our lives, we think, gosh, I wish I just got serious sooner or I wish I just

left that relationship sooner or I wish I had the courage to quit that that job

where I was disrespected sooner. In fact I can't think of a single instance in my life where I think to myself, I just, I wish I stuck around. I wish I just, I wish I just, you know, remained in that situation a bit longer, suffered, hurt that person, allow

that person to hurt me, allow myself to feel disinterested and stuck and miserable for

longer.

If there's an area or a situation or a relationship in your life right now that doesn't feel good,

that hasn't felt good for some time if you're being honest with yourself. If you're to look back

truly at the last weeks, days, months, years even, where you feel dissatisfied, you feel unsure, you feel just unsteady and there's that

quiet voice saying it's time to move on it's time to leave this it's time to try

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