You Don’t Get a Choice | Circumstances Have No care For Our Feelings
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🗓️ 23 February 2024
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
Certainly, Marcus Aurelius would have related to the sentiment. Floods. Plagues. Wars. A troubled son. Personal health issues. “Haven’t I given enough?” we had him say in a recent Daily Stoic video. But the thing is, life doesn’t care. It has no time for your questions. It pays no mind to your limits.
“I don’t think I’m up for this,” the novelist John Gregory Dunne said to his wife as they left the hospital after rushing to check on their daughter who had just been admitted. He was down about his career. He wasn’t feeling great about his own health. He was sick about his only child. He was worried it would be a long and hard road out for all of them. Joan Didion, his steely, stoic wife, responded with something we can imagine Marcus Aurelius reminding himself of in Meditations: “You don’t get a choice.”
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In today's Daily Stoic excerpt, Ryan reminds us that in life things will be frustrating, awful and painful but it never cares about us. We can waste energy on things out of control.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. On Friday we do double duty not just reading our daily meditation |
| 0:09.6 | but also reading a passage from The Daily Stoic, my book, 366 meditations on wisdom, |
| 0:16.0 | perseverance in the art of living, which I wrote with my wonderful |
| 0:19.7 | collaborator, translator, and literary agent, Stephen Hanselman. |
| 0:24.4 | So today, we'll give you a quick meditation |
| 0:26.4 | from the Stoics with some analysis from me, |
| 0:29.5 | and then we'll send you out into the world |
| 0:31.4 | to turn these words in to works. |
| 0:34.0 | You don't get a choice. |
| 0:42.0 | After everything that's happened in the last few years, we're tired. |
| 0:46.0 | After everything that's happened in your life, |
| 0:49.0 | after everything that's gone wrong the last couple weeks, |
| 0:51.0 | you think to yourself, I can't handle one more thing going wrong |
| 0:55.8 | certainly Marcus Aurelius would have related to that sentiment floods and plagues and |
| 1:00.4 | wars a troubled son, personal health issues. |
| 1:04.0 | Haven't I given enough? |
| 1:05.9 | We have Marx's real estate in a recent daily stoic video. |
| 1:10.1 | The thing is life doesn't care, |
| 1:11.9 | has no time for your questions. It pays no mind to your limits. |
| 1:16.0 | I don't think I'm up for this. The novelist John Gregory Dunn said to his wife as they |
| 1:20.8 | left the hospital after Russian to check on their daughter who had just been admitted. |
| 1:25.4 | He was down about his career, he wasn't feeling great about his own health. He was sick about his only child. |
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