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dear stephen shirley i am ayear-old single woman without any children,

and I have been dating a 41-year-old man that has three young daughters. We've been together

for five months, and all of a sudden, he does not approve of how I dress. He told me that I

dress as if I want attention from other men and not like

a wholesome woman. I am a full-time legal assistant at a popular law firm and I take law

classes at night. At work, I'm in heels and pencil skirts and on the weekend I dress for whatever

the occasion is and it's my own

personal style. I have a beautiful, curvy body and at my age I don't see the problem with

me wearing a top that shows a little stomach or a dress that shows off my curves. He didn't

have a problem with how I dress when he met me, but now he has been talking

about it nonstop. I recently met his daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans and a sweatshirt.

He still said that I need to do a better, I need to do better at presenting myself in a more

wholesome manner. When he met, when he and I met, it was not wholesome, so why does he want me to seem wholesome now?

I never intended to be a role model for his children.

He says he wants me to be more like his friend's wife, and that's all fine and good

if I were an older stay-at-home mom, but I'm not. Why is he bringing this up now

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