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You can't do what I do.

Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and I were only

having sex three times a month. That may have been cool for him, but I get it when I want it,

just not from him. I've had a man on the side for about four months, and I don't feel bad about it.

My man on the side is loving and thoughtful

and we stay, we only stay in five-star hotels. He winds and dines me before we make love and he lets

me stay overnight in the room if he has to leave. He's married and he's very happy in his marriage,

but he does not get enough sex at home either.

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