This this is mythical.

Okay all you Myrtle Beast out there.

This is Charles Neal from Dispatches for Myrtle Beach.

And if you ever heard the saying you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

And let's talk about that a little bit. You know, I'm probably a lot older than y'all are and I have finally figured out in life that sometimes and this this phrase catch more flies with honey than

venegra means you know it's better to have a sweet or nice

disposition or the one that you may be talking up to people somebody or trying to do something and just make them do it and everything, but just kind of ease them into what you want to do.

And if you do things like that, it'll just make it a lot of easy with what you're doing and people getting along with you and all the things that we do in life

because you know the longer you live the better it'll be for you knowing that when you're nicer to people and you try to keep your temper down and let me tell you I understand that sometimes it's hard to do that because when I was younger boy it was hard to me for me to keep my temper down and it really messed some things up for me.

So I ought to have been trying to catch more stuff with honey

than with vinegar back then,

because I'd have been a whole lot better off.

And you know, when you're kind of people whether it's with

friends or people you work with it'll it'll work out a lot better for you because

they'll reciprocate and do and be nice to you. And then if you have

people that maybe aren't so nice, if you show them that you can be nice too, it'll make them see that you can be nice too, it'll make them see that, you know, maybe

it's better to be like that than it is to be rude sometime and kind of talking down to people so just remember when you're nice people

see that and they'll give it and most of the time they'll give it back to you. And if you, and listen, if it's your girlfriend you're working with,

I'm telling you, or your wife, it'll be a lot better if you do things as sweet for them and things will work out a lot better for you

and you trying to just make them get along and tell them what to do so you know just think about that if you got a wife or a girlfriend

because you you'll get along a lot better if you use that honey instead of that vinegar to get along

with them so you always catch more flies with

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