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The Dad Edge Podcast

You Are More Than What You See with Darryll Stinson

The Dad Edge Podcast

Larry Hagner

Project, Self-improvement, Stevenson, Podcast, Edge, Education, Kids, Shawn, Family, Kids & Family, Fathers, Fatherhood, Community, Advice, Dad, Good, Health & Fitness, Children

4.8 β€’ 1.5K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 13 May 2021

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Darryll Stinson is a husband, father, former D1 athlete, motivational speaker, and founder of Second Chance Athletes. At a young age, Darryll had to take care of his younger sisters because his father was fairly absent in his life. Through custody battles and being teased at school, Darryll found sports which then became his identity.

After his career in sports ended, Darryll discovered his passion for helping former athletes find their identity after sports. It's very common for athletes to use the sport that they play as a form of identity. However, Darryll is an advocate of identifying oneself with values, morals, or things you're passionate about. After his mentor showed him this technique, he has been able to show others how to do the same.

Darryll reminds us that rejection can be used to thrust you into success. No one wants to be rejected, especially men. They even try to go out of their way to be accepted and receive affirmation. However, when we get rejected in life, it always points us in another direction that we never would have thought if we hadn't been rejected.

"When you feel that moment of rejection, process that moment and make a better conclusion." Instead of feeling inadequate or like the world is out to get you, recognize that it may be the other person's insecurities that are driving their decision. Once you realize this, you can step back and come to a better conclusion that will leave you feeling content and secure in yourself.

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0:00.0

We are men, we are warriors, we are dads, dads with a purpose, dads with an edge.

0:10.6

We sharpen our skills so we can show up best for others.

0:14.8

We have one shot in life to be a dad.

0:20.6

Why not make it epic?

0:28.0

Hey what's up guys, welcome to the dad edge podcast.

0:30.4

I'm Larry Hagner, your host and founder of this show.

0:33.9

Hope you guys are having a great week and today we are talking about how men have this

0:38.9

immense fear of rejection because we identify who we are with what we do.

0:44.8

Today I'll be talking to Darryl Stinson, who is a husband, father, former D1 athlete.

0:50.5

He's a motivational speaker and he's also the founder of second chance athletes.

0:55.4

And Darryl was in school, he was made fun of because he was the smartest kid in class.

1:00.2

And he was a black kid who quote unquote acted white, his words.

1:04.7

Darryl then fell into a spiral of not doing his work and letting his identity be defined

1:09.5

by his activities.

1:11.2

He felt the people would like him because he was an athlete and he was afraid of the rejection

1:16.8

he would face if he stopped playing sports.

1:19.8

He also grew up in a household where his father was very caught up in sports and wasn't

1:24.3

around very much.

1:26.0

And for the first five years of Darryl's life, he was caught up in custody battles between

1:30.0

his father and mother and money was always an issue.

1:34.5

He was forced to grow up a lot sooner so that he could take care of his sisters while

1:38.8

his mom worked.

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