YNP #027: How to Handle a Shy Dog
Your New Puppy: Dog Training and Dog Behavior Lessons to Help You Turn Your New Puppy into a Well-Behaved Dog
Debbie Cilento: Dog Trainer | Dog Behavior Consultant | Owner of Playtime Paws | Belly Rub Specialist
4.8 • 917 Ratings
🗓️ 6 March 2019
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary

The thought of raising two puppies together can create a lot of warm, fuzzy, and fun images. They will keep each other company, entertain each other, exercise each other, and create perfect Instagram moments of snuggling together in their bed.
We go into it aware that it will take more work. Of course, it makes sense, there are two puppies instead of one. What we don’t realize until we get them home is that it doesn’t take twice the work, it takes THREE times the work as raising one puppy.
When a client asks me: “How to do I train two dogs at the same time?” My answer is: “You don’t.” Not until you train each one separately so they understand what you are asking. Then you can bring them together and train them as a pack. That is where three times the work comes in.
AND it doesn’t stop at skills training. There are many activities you will need to do with your puppies both separately and together.
There are also many reasons for this which I talk about within the episode.
- Litter-mate syndrome
- You need to have a relationship and bond with each dog on their own and with both dogs as a pack.
- Prevent separation anxiety from each other by giving them time apart.
- Teach them to have the confidence to deal with any environment with and without their sibling there.
This is A LOT of work to train and prevent behavior problems. Enough that most dog trainers recommend that you don’t ever get two dogs from the same litter. It can be done, if you are prepared for it.
If you already have two puppies or if you are set on getting two, I give you some examples on how to tackle all of this work .
If you are still thinking about getting two puppies, I give you the advice I usually give my clients who really want two dogs.
Enjoy!
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to your new puppies podcast. Starting you and your dog off on the right paw. Here's your |
| 0:16.8 | host Debbie Salento. Hello and |
| 0:28.0 | Hello and welcome to episode 27 of your new puppies podcast I'm Debbie and today we're going to talk |
| 0:34.9 | about how to handle a shy insecure or fearful dog. Usually those three things are |
| 0:40.4 | kind of intertwined. So this topic comes from special requests because I have |
| 0:46.4 | gotten emails usually in a panic from my listeners about they just brought home a new |
| 0:52.0 | puppy and the puppy's scared of them. |
| 0:55.0 | He's shying away from them, won't come near them. |
| 0:58.0 | And what to do in that moment is really important. |
| 1:01.0 | I also think this is a super important topic for all of us to know because it doesn't even have to be our dog. |
| 1:08.0 | How we handle a shy or insecure dog when we encounter them just anywhere whether we pass them on the street in a |
| 1:15.2 | store or even maybe there's a stray dog. |
| 1:19.5 | Most of us handle it incorrectly because you Because we're dog people. |
| 1:23.6 | So we had these big hearts and we really want to take care of them and we want to make sure |
| 1:28.2 | that they know it's okay and so we kind of force ourselves on them and try to win them over when really we're making it worse. So I'm going to talk about how to |
| 1:38.3 | handle a shy or fearful dog, whether it's yours or a dog you find on the street. |
| 1:43.0 | This is also a topic that is very near and dear to my heart. |
| 1:47.0 | If you listen to me, you know that I have two girls who are insecure. |
| 1:51.0 | They're much, much better now. |
| 1:52.3 | I used to call them my insecure girls and now they're just my dogs that have some |
| 1:56.3 | insecurities, but I got them when they were older. So they're probably more severe than most cases, but they're definitely not as severe as some that I've seen. |
| 2:06.7 | So what does a shy or fearful dog look like? |
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