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LOVERS by Shan

Yes, I was the Villain in My Relationship feat. Jessie Reyez

LOVERS by Shan

Lemonada Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

5.0 • 5.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 December 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Singer, songwriter Jessie Reyes candidly opens up about how on her quest for love, she recently played the role of the “bad guy”. For many, especially women, this is something that can be very hard to admit. Jessie Reyez reflects on how she f***** up, how she tried to right her wrong, how she coped when her apology to her ex wasn’t enough, and what insight she gained from this experience. Jessie Reyez is a Toronto born singer and songwriter who burst into the scene in 2016 with her platinum single Figures. In 2020, Jessie received her first Grammy nomination for Urban Contemporary Album. She is admired internationally and has amassed millions of followers and is currently embarking on a national sold out tour. Jessie has collaborated with artists like Eminem, 6lack, and Kehlani. She has also written songs for Calvin Harris, Dua Lipa and Normani. Her new album Yessie, is out NOW.Follow Jessie: http://instgram.com/jessiereyez/https://www.youtube.com/@JessieReyezhttps://jessiereyez.com/https://open.spotify.com/artist/3KedxarmBCyFBevnqQHy3PFollow Shan: http://instagram.com/shanboodyhttp://tiktok.com/shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.comPlease help us in showing love to our incredible sponsors by clicking these links to learn more. Gerber Life Guaranteed Life InsuranceNo medical exams and no health questionnaire required. Just go to the website for a free quote.http://GerberLifeFamily.comHello Fresh http://www/hellofresh.com/Use code LOVERS18 at checkout!Go to http://HelloFresh.com/lovers18 and use code lovers18 for 18 free meals plus free shipping! There is reason why it is America’s #1 Meal Kit so give it a try for yourself. Lumi Labs: Microdosehttp://Microdose.comUse code: LOVERS Microdose is available nationwide. To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code LOVERS to get free shipping & 30% off your first order. Manscaped:http://www.manscaped.comUse code: LOVERSGet free shipping and 20% off by going to manscaped.com and using LOVERS at checkout . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

I think that it's very easy to lean into the narrative, especially when you probably have

0:06.9

encountered a lot of shitty partners, that it's always the other person for women.

0:11.2

For women, yeah.

0:12.4

So to hear you start the conversation off with I fucked up is a little rare.

0:18.2

Rare for me.

0:18.8

It's hard for me to swallow.

0:20.8

Like what does that mean?

0:21.9

You feel like an idiot when you're done

0:23.7

because you feel like you've become this monster.

0:27.6

For me, it felt like I became a monster

0:29.5

because it felt like everything that he was now listing

0:31.9

was things that I had an issue with with past partners.

0:34.8

Like, going ghost.

0:39.8

I can't believe I did it so often.

0:42.1

Is this a nice guy's finished last story?

0:44.8

Ugh.

0:46.8

Is it?

0:48.1

That sucks.

0:49.2

Lovers and friends.

0:51.6

I'm going to take you on a trip, baby, I don't pretend. I say, lovers and friends, I'm going to take you on a trip, baby. I don't pretend, I say.

0:55.2

Lovers and friends.

0:57.1

I'm going to hold you down down to the end, I say.

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