Would you rather have to teach a boy to not be terrible to women or teach a woman to be afraid of men?

What would you rather?

I think that it's really important that we teach men.

And so when I...

So you'd rather have a man to, like, make the world a better place?

I'd rather...

Well, rather is hard.

But I think that it is more so the responsibility of parents who have boys to guide them correctly.

Of course, yeah.

Whereas with girls, I don't want, if I were to have a girl, I wouldn't want her

living a life of fear.

It's not her responsibility to manage men.

So I feel, but I, but yes, obviously you have to like instill logic about the world.

What's your, what would be your answer there? Would you rather have a little boy or a little girl? And which one would you rather have to deal with? I think I, I mean, I would love to have a little girl. Okay. And you'd love to have a little girl and you'd have to let her know about the fears of the world. But you'd rather not have to because you hope the world is better by then. I mean, that's the hope. Do you know about dark man dreams? Dark man dreams? Yes. So this is an

interesting psychological phenomenon that I experienced in a extremely visceral way. I'm about to be

very critical of you. I hope you know continue. I know. I know and I'm ready. So often, and this is like a theory, essentially, but I

experienced it and a lot of my friends did. When you're a little girl, you'll have some kind of dream

where there is an ominous male figure. Because when you're born, nine times out of 10, like,

I was absolutely in love with my dad

in love with my mom in love with my brother safe safe safe cuddle there was no like men are dangerous

because I had such a bonded great experience with men up into that point and then I had my dark man

dream as it were.

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