Content warning for discussions of spiritual abuse. You know, I'm so much.

You know, I put on my list because I want like a husband someday, a partner, someone I can go have fun and travel with.

And the first thing I wrote, kindness.

Good.

Just a kind person.

You know, if somebody falls on the street, they'd pick him up.

Yeah.

And that's different from being nice.

Yeah.

I think that not we don't maybe always differentiate between those two.

Nice is sort of a, to me, a fake facade where you're, your attempt.

It's like the trip of the nice guy when the nice guy is a lot of times, a piece of huge,

he's like, the nice guy is always finished last.

And like, what you're describing isn't nice,

it isn't good.

It's not good.

Or like what you said to a girl

when you don't know anything about a personality,

like she's so nice.

Yes.

Yeah.

Like if somebody would call me nice, I would feel very insulted and kind of bad by myself.

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