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Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Wrap It Up

Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Slate Audio

Parenting, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2019

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s episode, Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom who is feeling anxious about her teenager wanting to buy condoms and a co-parenting dad who has some concerns. As usual, we share our triumphs and fails and offer up some recommendations. For Slate Plus, Dan shares an excerpt from his newly released book, How To Be A Family. Sign up for Slate Plus here.

Recommendations:

Dan recommends the carnivore compromise, the Impossible burger.

Jamilah recommends the kids book, C Is For Consent.

Join us on Facebook and email us at momanddad@slate.com to tell us what you thought of today’s show and give us ideas for what we should talk about in future episodes. Got questions that you’d like us to answer? Call and leave us a message at 424-255-7833.

Podcast produced by Jess Jupiter.

Hosts Jamilah Lemieux and Dan Kois

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast contains explicit language.

0:06.0

Welcome to Mom and Dad are Fighting, Slate's Parenting Podcast for Thursday, September 19th.

0:11.6

The Wrap It Up edition.

0:14.0

I'm Jimmy Lillamue, a writer and a contributor to Slate's Parenting Advice column Karen Feeding.

0:20.0

I live in California, sort of, and I'm mom to Naima, who's six and sitting by my side today having a sick day from school. Feel better, Naima. I'm Dan Cois. I'm an editor and writer at Slate. I'm the author of How to Be a Family Out This Week. And I'm the dad of Lyra, who's 14, and Harper, who's 12. Hi, Jamila. How's it going? Good. Thank you. It is a little bit of an insane week, book release week, but I think I'm going to make it through. What's this about a book, Dan? I heard you have a book. Rumor it has that I have a book. Thanks so much for asking. Yes. Listeners to the podcast have probably heard a lot about this book. But yes, how to be a family. The book I wrote about our family's trip around the world in 2017 is out now and in stores. And Slate Plus listeners, today will get a little extra excerpt as well. So anyways, buy the book, buy the book. Have you ever

1:12.3

liked anything I've said on this podcast? Do you hate me and wish you could burn something I love?

1:17.4

Buy the book. And one thing I would love to add is I'm on tour for this book right now. And so if

1:24.7

you are a mom and dad or fighting listener and you want to meet me, please come out and come to these events.

1:29.8

And the next week I'm doing four events, in fact, and I would love to see you on Friday, September 20th.

1:35.4

I'm at Politics and Prose in Washington, D.C.

1:38.4

On Sunday, September 22nd, I'm at Book Passage in Corte Madera, California.

1:47.0

The next day, Monday the 23rd, I'm at Books Incorporated in Berkeley. And then Wednesday the 25th, I'm at Fly Leaf Books in Chapel Hill,

1:51.9

North Carolina. I think each of these events will be really fun. And I would love to meet you.

1:56.3

Please introduce yourself as a listener and shake my hand. And we'll have all these events

2:00.4

listed on the

2:01.3

Slate Parenting Facebook page as well under the events tab. Buy the book. By the book. So in addition to

2:08.7

us selling you to buy the book, today we've got a question about a 14 year old who's looking to

2:15.0

purchase some prophylactics for the first time and a co-parenting dad

2:19.9

who's finding that maybe his little one isn't quite as happy in the other household as he is

2:28.2

when he's with his father. So to kick off today's show, as always, we're doing triumphs and fails.

2:35.0

I have so many of each this week.

2:37.8

But let's start with you, Dan.

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