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Hey y'all, this is Heather and welcome to This is a life. Yo love you guys just a head up like we appreciate you always

listening in listening to the whole podcast like your comments your feedback we get so many amazing

messages from you guys and we've been doing this for like maybe five what six seven

years a long time so we appreciate our OGs like just want to throw that out there.

Yeah, I mean, you know, maybe you know, share this with your cousins, your

Grandma NEM, you know, just share with somebody. But today, you know, we want to talk

about really not changing who you are.

So this is great train that's going on right now.

I've actually, it's actually been pretty cool.

And so the idea is you, you, what have you done in order to change yourself to like get the attention of a crush?

So for example, like a crush told you that, you know, he likes straight hair and then you went and you straighten your hair and then you

sent the picture of yourself like you got a straight hair and then you go back and the

crush is like oh my god your hair is trash and like that buries you you know what I mean?

Oh wow oh yeah it's like it's some it's some savage stuff on there that people have like done to change who they are in order to get somebody else's attention because that's what they felt like they wanted

The groan me, the healing, healed version of me is like, what? I wish a ninja what?

I mean, but, you know, that's what people, that's what people have done. That's fair. I mean, I think I did the same thing I remember something

something indirectly I remember planning this big dinner because I wanted to go out

to dinner with my crush and I didn't want to ask him directly so I

planned a big group outing and him and all his friends came and I did it so we could

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