This is the BBC World Service. I am Santa Safi and welcome to World of Wisdom

where we explore ways to address some of the personal issues that life turns up.

Have you ever felt that your life is at a crossroads? That what you choose next will have huge implications?

I suppose we all have.

How do we decide which road to take? This is a question that occupies Pays Mind.

She is a young woman in Thailand who is wondering about career, family and whether to teach and travel abroad.

She spoke to Sister Dangany game. Here is a shortened version of their conversation.

I feel like I am at the junction in my life and I don't know what to do next.

How do I go about making big decisions about my futures when I have made it. How do I know if I have made the right decision

for me to be happy? Wonderful, pay.

That's a very big question.

Especially for a young person like you.

Dear pay, in your question, I hear a lot of wisdom. You said that you're 32, but you feel maybe like you're running half time and so there's this great

pressure to to make a clear decision about your life.

Every stage in our lives,

we actually feel the pressure to make choices, make decisions, and to go forward with them.

And in that way, we also feel that once we make the decision, they have to be the right decision,

that we will just follow a straightforward course.

But from my experience I studied medicine. So I spent 24 years in school and then I became a in my life like the death of my partner really

walk me up and you see I grew up with a complex that maybe am nobody and I don't

deserve a place in this world so I always strived to prove myself.

And here I was a medical doctor with a wonderful loving partner,

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