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Date Yourself Instead

Work on yourself so much until they're not your type anymore

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 June 2023

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

If you're overly consumed by the idea of a person instead of focusing on yourself, this episode is for you. We get so caught up and easily fixated on a new relationship, or a partner that isn't giving us the love we deserve, and it becomes an ultimate form of distraction away from who we are, our goals, and what truly makes us happy. This episode is really just a reminder to work on yourself and your goals, and find the passion that drives you, instead of focusing on someone that isn't showing up for you. Remember, if you loved this episode feel free to dm me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead, and be sure to rate it on Spotify.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of Date Yourself Instead.

0:04.4

Apologies if I sound a little stuffy.

0:07.1

I just landed in London and for some reason whenever I'm super jet lagged,

0:11.9

I completely lose my voice and I just sound really weird and I have like

0:16.6

severe vocal fry. I feel like I sound like dead right now.

0:21.4

So yeah, I'm in London and I found this podcast studio in Soho and it's really cute and they

0:29.2

set up everything for me just now and it's just so crazy to be recording episodes

0:37.4

in a different country. I've never done this before but it's really fun and I'm really excited to

0:43.4

I think I might record another episode actually on all my solo travels because I've been getting

0:47.2

so many DMs on Instagram about it and solo travel is really going to be a little bit tied

0:53.3

into this episode because I feel like part of learning to love myself was taking time for myself

0:59.3

shaking up my environment and it kind of ties into the topic of what we're discussing today.

1:05.2

If you guys want to know more about my London adventures, always feel free to follow me on

1:10.1

Instagram at lists or on the podcast account at date yourself instead. I post a lot of

1:15.9

additional content on there. Anyways, okay, so let's dive into today's episode. Work on yourself

1:21.6

so much that they're not your type anymore. What does this really mean? When it comes to relationships

1:27.9

and really, really investing in another person, it can honestly be the most incredible thing in

1:32.8

the world. It could be the most beautiful experience in the world to fall in love and have your

1:37.6

life partner by your side. But how much is too much where you forget who you are? How much is too

1:44.3

much in a relationship where you lose your sense of self? I think it's personally to the point where

1:49.6

you feel like you are almost catering so much to the other person and focusing all your energy on

1:55.6

if the relationship's going to work and if you're going to be together for the rest of your life

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