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The Perfect Scam

Women Take Back Control from Romance Scammers, Part 1

The Perfect Scam

AARP

True Crime, Society & Culture

4.51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 19 June 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

After the death of her husband, friends encourage Debbie, a former intelligence officer, to try online dating. There she meets a handsome man who claims he's a British doctor living in America but working overseas. Wanting to ease into a new relationship, Debbie is happy to have a long-distance confidant. The two grow closer, texting every day. Then, two years in to the relationship the unthinkable happens: Debbie's online boyfriend reveals he's a scammer.  

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0:00.0

This week on the perfect scam.

0:03.0

When you first start dating, I laugh and I think if the Yahoo chat used to go ding, ding, ding,

0:08.0

you know, I could be being a dead sleep in my bedroom on the other side of the house and I would hear that and I would get up and I

0:13.8

would race to the computer.

0:15.8

I just felt young again.

0:17.4

I felt loved, I felt appreciated.

0:20.3

I trusted him.

0:21.0

I had no reason not to trust at that point.

0:25.0

Welcome back to AARP's The Perfect Scam. I'm your host Michelle Kosinski.

0:31.0

This week we're going deep inside the very dark world of romance

0:36.6

scams. Each one is unique, each one is painful, but we're going to look at a few

0:41.6

that have an unexpected twist or several.

0:46.5

You will meet two extremely smart women who manage to turn the tables on their scammers and the endings are not at all what I

0:56.2

anticipated. So first let's welcome Debbie Montgomery Johnson. Sit back,

1:01.6

get ready, she has quite a story to tell. I went into the Air Force as an

1:06.9

intelligence officer and I did that for eight years. That's right to say that Debbie, a

1:12.1

business owner and mother of four adult children down in Florida is smart

1:16.3

Would be an understatement. She had a career in military intelligence the kind of person you don't want to be hiding stuff from.

1:25.0

I was able to work in D.C. at the Pentagon and at the D.I. Defense Intelligence Agency.

1:30.0

I was down in the Navy Yard for a while.

1:32.0

And then I went overseas to Germany. I was down in the Navy Yard for a while.

1:33.0

And then I went overseas to Germany for a few years,

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