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For example, there's a lot of research I came across by accident recently that shows that women seem to have specifically two preferences in men.

They have two different men that they like depending on the time of the month.

In normal days, they in surveys, when they show them different pictures of men or descriptions of men, this is consistently shown over decades.

Women will often pick a man who is more masculine seeming, like a longer beard, something like that, but less attractive.

And they'll pick a guy who seem basically more stable, somebody who might be a better father figure or a more reliable guy and so on.

During their ovulation, they're much more likely to pick a man who they deem as more attractive.

And they will specifically note that that more attractive man who's also doesn't have a beard but more

facially masculine. Facial masculization and beard apparently represent different things.

But the facial masculization, so basically they pick the alpha male to have sex with in ovulation

and they specifically say we don't want a long-term relationship and they don't pick that guy

when they ask in other times of the month. Have you heard of this?

Do it's even more interesting than that?

And it's exactly in line with that is the difference in female preference of partner

when they're on combined oral contraceptives versus off of them.

It's the equivalent where you have when they're ovulating versus not,

you have this disparity in what they prefer in terms of alpha

versus like a provider slash like somebody who's a stable choice. When they're on combined

oral contraceptives like progestin plus estradiol synthetic to castrate themselves essentially,

they find their preference in male is different than when they're off of it

to a point where it almost, the literature almost suggests that, because a lot of these girls

don't come off their oral contraceptives or on it for years on end, and they meet their partners

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