Well guys, according to X, my husband probably hates my postpartum body and is statistically proven to leave me.

Happy Wednesday.

So there is a raging debate on X right now about women's postpartum bodies, what that means for their attractiveness and their marriages and women wanting to have children or being too afraid to have children. And while I think looking at that debate and reading some of those comments and posts, it would be very easy to take the Black Pill and Doom Scroll. I do actually think that our culture is changing for the better and we need to talk about it. Before we do, though, make sure that you like this video and subscribe to my channel if you have not already, and of course ring that notification bell so that you never miss an episode of the Red Cooper

Show. There are a lot of different things going viral on X right now that sort of circumnavigate

this conversation and this debate. There's a lot of things floating in this arena, but there

was one post in particular that made me want to talk about this.

It was a viral tweet from last week from this girl named Nicole, and she posted a meme from Gossip Girl of Late Meester, and she said, y'all really want to get married and have sex with

the same person for the rest of your life? All capital letters, the audacity, the insanity.

And so that was posted on October 5th,

and it has a whopping 20 million views. 20 million impressions on X. And obviously I looked at that

and I kind of laughed. I saw it before it really took off. I think she was maybe posting it in

regards to the Taylor Swift discourse with her getting engaged in her new album, all of that stuff. But Gina Floreo, who I adore, she wrote a great piece

about this post in particular for Evie magazine where she laid out the argument for commitment

for marriage, and she titled it, Is it boring to sleep with one person for the rest of your life,

the truth behind this viral post on X.

And in this article, she basically talked about why this tweet is so unsurprising in our current

landscape due to the cultural messages that women have received about marriage and sex

and what it means to be an empowered woman over the last couple of decades.

And, you know, her article was very spot on about a lot of things. She also talked about the dangers of promiscuous hookup culture and not having a steady partner. And obviously, her argument for commitment was completely spot on. I agreed with everything. I do wanna offer a bit of a different perspective about our current culture. I'm not saying that I have a different perspective about the messages that have been shoved down women's throats for the past few decades,

but I do think that something is changing. And while it would be very easy to look at a world of

Alex Cooper's and Hollywood promiscuity and hookup culture and just feel impending doom, like there is

no light at the end of the tunnel. I promise you,

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