Women Are Spaghetti, Men Are Waffles, and Therapists Who Smoke Pot
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 5 May 2025
⏱️ 59 minutes
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May 5, 2025
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| 0:00.0 | So, Bob, you just got back from the dentist and half of your mouth is numb, which means that you're going to sound a little funny. |
| 0:09.6 | And I could punch you on that side of the face and you wouldn't even feel it. |
| 0:13.1 | You have twice. |
| 0:14.2 | I didn't even notice you. |
| 0:15.3 | I could do whatever I could do whatever I wanted to that side of your face. |
| 0:18.4 | And you wouldn't have any idea that it happened. |
| 0:20.4 | I think you're doing it right now. But I don't know. Maybe I am. So emails, what do you say? |
| 0:27.5 | Yep. Long-term annual patron soft noodles, good old soft noodles. Hey, I still have my voice of Bob hanging on my wall in my office. |
| 0:37.5 | Yeah, so do I. I mean, I have the voice of Kirk hanging on my wall in my office. Yeah, so do I. |
| 0:39.2 | I mean, I have the voice of Kirk, and I also have another thing she made. |
| 0:42.4 | You have all of the voices, though. |
| 0:44.1 | I have all the voices. |
| 0:45.6 | Bob is referring to the fan art that decorates my office door region. |
| 0:53.1 | Long-term manual patron and soft noodles. she says, whenever I have something to grieve |
| 0:58.1 | these days, I often think I wish Kirk had finished his book on grief already. I think it |
| 1:03.1 | partly comes from this desire to have some control over the experience, like if I just learn |
| 1:08.6 | all there is to know about grief, it won't feel so overwhelming and scary. |
| 1:12.7 | I hate how it's just unbridled emotions and it feels so overwhelming. |
| 1:18.1 | How do you allow yourself to lose control and actually face grief? Bob, what do you think? |
| 1:23.6 | Yeah. Well, you can't make that happen. |
| 1:48.5 | I'm similar to you in that I have a desire somewhere inside to control shit. Like I want to control stuff, you know. And I was at a training about a month ago. And my current therapy crush, a guy called Stan Tacken, is, he's like, just let the session come to you. Just sit back and let the session come to you. Don't try to do something. |
| 1:53.8 | So I've been, I actually have that taped to my, my screen so that it's just a friendly reminder, |
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