Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now, and you're listening to the Flying Free

podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

emotional and spiritual abuse.

It's here. Welcome to episode 100 of the Flying Free Podcast. I am super

excited to present this episode to you because it is a compilation, a little snippet of almost every

single episode we've had so far. So we've got a lot of ground to cover, so let's dig in.

If you've asked a few times and change hasn't happened,

the next step would be deciding how you're going to manage your own life.

In other words, the way that Danny Silk can keep your love on describes setting boundaries.

Boundaries aren't telling the other person what to do.

They're telling the other person what you're going to do. So it would be things like, hey, I've noticed that when I've asked for

honor, it doesn't seem to come back to me. From now on, if you're not honoring to me, I'm going to not engage in a

conversation that you're not honoring to me.

I had to learn that no, someone can actually actually I need to live in the uncomfortable

feeling that someone's maybe disapproved of me because I had to say no to

something whether it's no I can't buy that product or no I can't work in the

nursery or no I can't work in the nursery or no I can't take on this

extra ministry responsibility because I've got other responsibilities the

answer is no and it's not because I don't love you or don't want to help you.

It's because I have priorities and my priority right now and they don't necessarily include

making sure that you get everything that you want from me.

Another hard thing for women is we go to churches and like your gut tells you there's something wrong here

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