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"Winning Is A Choice" - Brad Lea BREAKS The LOSER Mindset & EXCUSE Culture

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🗓️ 30 January 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Confidence isn’t about hype, looks, or lines. It’s built by stacking small wins, developing discipline, and choosing the right environment. This clip breaks down how young men can build real confidence that translates into career success and stronger relationships.

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0:00.0

basic tip for men today, specifically men today, to develop confidence so they win in their careers

0:08.2

and they win with women. What would some tips you would share with them, young men?

0:15.4

Well, you know, there's always the cliche, do what you say you're going to do, but ultimately,

0:20.5

I think confidence comes from the memory of winning. You know what I mean? If you win a lot at anything,

0:25.6

you become more confident in that thing. So if you want to become more confident all around,

0:31.8

you need to win more. And to win more, I think, is easy because winning is a choice, really,

0:37.4

isn't it? So you just set your

0:39.7

bar lower as far as a win goes. So like when I wake up in the morning, I brush my teeth,

0:44.7

I'm celebrating like, man, that's a win. And for a lot of people out there, they should adopt that

0:50.2

because I have people that, you know, come to me, me ask me questions and when they're speaking to me

0:55.3

they apparently don't understand brushing their teeth yeah so little things that win all throughout

1:01.2

the day just start racking up the wins you know what i mean step one forgive yourself a lot of people

1:06.6

have past guilt and shame and they just they just self-talk themselves into uh insecurity you know so

1:13.7

so forgive yourself and then ultimately pick pick the right uh group you know if you're hanging

1:19.7

around losers you're probably going to be one but if if there's one thing it would be stack up

1:24.3

the wins just start winning on a regular basis um and i think and i think you

1:29.5

eventually start walking anything with girls anything with girls girls i think at the end of the day

1:34.8

confidence goes a long way with girls um you know figure out how to be a real man and not a beta don't try

1:42.0

to split the bill don't don't don't lean on current belief systems i would go

1:48.3

traditional because most women most women they want a man that that leads like a you know what would

1:55.5

be considered a man's man a real man not someone who who believes it's okay to split the bill. Like, you don't split the bill,

2:04.3

gentlemen. You lead. You don't serve them. You lead, I think, anyway. And I've always done well,

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