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Welcome back to Famously Available.

It's your host, Ben Higgins.

And if you missed part one of this episode, be sure to go back and listen.

I've enlisted the help of the incredible

psychologist, Dr. Hillary Goldscher, to really go in deep with Deanna. Therapy is amazing and

beneficial in so many ways, but I think pretty crucial when we are on the path to finding love

and learning to love ourselves.

I'm excited to hear more from this conversation, so let's dive back in.

I continue to talk about my marriage because it's the freshest on my mind and it was my

longest relationship that I've ever been in and there were lots of things, right?

We were on the cycle, that toxic cycle and just, we just, towards the end, we just couldn't get off. We things right we were on the cycle that toxic cycle and just we just

towards the end we just couldn't get off we just could not hop off the cycle there was no and and

there i personally i could not get to a place anymore of being able to change the way I said something or to be soft anymore, to be soft

anymore.

It felt exhausting to me.

I am an overthinker in general.

I can overthink overthinking.

I can take one thought and turn it eight way, sideways,

in a matter of seconds. And to sit in places where I didn't feel seen or heard created a

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