Rejecting passivity is a scary move and I think it takes a man to step into it and

it happens every single day. It isn't you reject passivity one time. It's like

every day there'll be a situation in your family room in your house at work.

We have to reject this passivity. I'm not gonna do anything or say anything and

step into it.

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So you've been my pastor for 30 years. That sounds weird to say I'm your pastor.

No you are. I'm your husband. I'm not your pastor. And my pastor but I think I mean

think about how many messages I have not heard. You've had to endure. No how many I've heard

you give but how many I watched you write I've watched you study for them. 30 years

times probably 30 weeks a year or so. So almost a thousand messages. Man oh man. I'm better

because I'm better because of you. And I think one of my favorites is when you preach

on real man. Real man. Yes it doesn't even make sense that I would like that but

maybe because I've had three sons brothers but when I hear it there's something in

me even as a woman that gets excited for our men to hear this. So we're going to talk

about that today. Yeah. Yeah I mean I get excited about it obviously because I don't

think men know what a man is. I don't think boys know when they become a man. And I don't

think you did. I didn't know. I mean I grew up in a home obviously you know this without

a dad really in my life but what my dad modeled for me was a man was all about here I'll

give you three W's I just thought of Wilson's you know a man is about wine because he was

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