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Hello and welcome back to oversharing. I'm Jordana Abraham and I'm Dr. Naomi Bernstein.

And today we have a very special IRL recording because you're in town. We did a little

oversharing photo shoot. We're changing our podcast cover. Sneak peak or behind the scenes I guess.

Totally. This is awesome. I can touch you. I'm playing Fussy, but as we speak, you know,

I'm what you like, physical touch. Get back off. No, it's nice, I think.

Yeah. So can we talk about that? Is that making you uncomfortable? What, physical touch?

Yeah. No, I mean, yes and no. I don't know why. What's your, if your love language,

if this was Mike, what is physical affection part of your top?

I think I, maybe everyone's like this, I like it when I like it.

Like I don't, you know what I mean, when you're not in the mood.

Right. I'm like, then it's like, negative.

Right. Right. But when you're in the mood, it's like, like I was having a bad week and when

you need like a hug, like then it's really, really nice. Yeah, but if you're irritable,

the same person can be giving you the hug, but the timing is super important.

Right. I mean, I was talking about this with someone about like, maybe like women and sex

or something where I'm kind of like, I could go like a long time, I think, without like sex.

But in terms of like physical, like someone like physically touching me, I think that would be

much harder. Right. Like a, a handhold or like a cuddle or something. Yeah, totally. Well,

we need that. You saw the experiment with the monkey, then they had like the wire monkey,

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