Why You Should Know the “26 Love Stories” to Find the Right Person for a Healthy Relationship

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🗓️ 9 February 2017

⏱️ 8 minutes

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior” (click to tweet) Today’s episode is about the book “Love is a Story” by Robert J. Sternberg, which explores the way that the stories we mentally tell about ourselves and how love works controls the way we behave. This means that one of the most important things to look for in a potential partner is either the same, or a similar love story, so that your attitude and mindset will line up with each other. So if it seems like no matter how hard you try, you cannot find the right person, it could be your stories aren’t lining up, or are simply too different. It’s a fascinating way to look at relationships and finding the perfect fit in a partner. “Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours” (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind The love triangle: Intimacy, passion, and commitment People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours While it is possible to change your story over time, it is often a better idea to just look for someone who has the same or similar story to begin with Find out what your love-story is: https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200007/whats-your-love-story “Love is a Story” by Robert J. SternbergLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Out of the ashes you will rise.
0:03.8	If you feel sad, lost, depressed, finances are in the gutter.
0:07.7	Social life, you're lonely. Out of the ashes, you will rise.
0:12.0	Here are my garage.
0:14.7	Invest in yourself. Always be curious.
0:17.4	Don't be a cynic. Sleeping on a couch in a mobile home with only $47 in my bank account.
0:25.7	When everything's burnt to the ground, when your sad, lost, depressed, and everything's at rock bottom,
0:31.2	you get to rebuild the exact and precise way you want the damn thing rebuilt.
0:35.7	Health, wealth, love, happiness, each of these four goals.
0:42.7	In case you missed the last episode, make sure you go back and check it out. Here's what went down.
0:46.7	Go out and teach people how to do stuff. That's how you move the world forward.
0:49.7	Enough of this nonsense. I was taking the smarts from a guy named Corey Roodle.
0:53.7	Gary Townsend helped me. Alan Nation helped me. Joel Satson at age 19 changed my life.
0:57.7	Most important people in my life were not the ones who made me work harder.
1:00.7	Although Joel did expect hard work. But boy, it was also smart work.
1:06.7	Coming up today.
1:07.7	And he said there's 26 main stories that people subconsciously act out.
1:12.7	It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. The reason people get divorced, people break up.
1:16.7	Especially in the modern world, we have more choice.
1:18.7	Never date somebody who doesn't have the same subconscious story as you.
1:23.7	I was reading a book because it's 2017 about, well, I was thinking on New Year's resolutions.
1:37.7	And then I thought of the subject of love.
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