Why You’re Scientifically Addicted to Your Situationship & How to Let Them Go with Amy Chan

Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford

Kamie Crawford

Relationships, Society & Culture, Comedy

4.8 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 May 2026

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Besties… if you’ve ever spiraled over a situationship, stalked an ex’s Instagram like it’s your part-time job (be so forreal - we’ve all done it), or wondered why you keep attracting the same kind of emotionally unavailable person - you’ve come to the right place. This week, we’re joined by dating expert, author of Unsingle, and founder of Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan to talk about the psychology behind heartbreak, attachment styles, dating burnout, avoidant behavior, “icks,” and why situationships can sometimes hurt more than real relationships. Amy breaks down how breakups affect the brain like withdrawal, why closure doesn’t always feel like closure and the dopamine loops that keep us attached to inconsistent people. Trust us, you’re gonna want to take notes on this one. Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/missamychan Buy Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts: https://bookshop.org/p/books/unsingle-how-to-date-smarter-and-create-love-that-lasts-amy-chan/d34e1fd29833adec?ean=9781419779848&next=t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Changes in sexual performance are more common than most people realize, and support doesn't
0:04.0	need to feel awkward.
0:06.0	With MedExpress, everything happens privately online.
0:09.4	Start by completing a short consultation reviewed by UK registered clinicians.
0:13.4	If eligible, treatment is delivered discreetly to your home with ongoing support whenever
0:17.8	you need it.
0:18.9	You're not alone in this.
0:20.5	Visit Medexpress.com.
0:21.8	dot UK slash podcast to learn more. Relationships are hard and that's why I'm here. Hey friend,
0:28.3	it's Cammy Crawford. I'm a TV host, producer and model living in Los Angeles, but you may
0:33.4	know me from my work on MTV's Catfish. welcome to my show Relationship, the advice podcast that
0:39.1	covers all relationship topics, the good, the bad, and the straight up shitty. Think of me as
0:44.1	your big sister that you can always trust to give you the real tea. Need advice? Send your story to
0:49.6	hello at relationshippod.com or DM me at Relationship on IG and tune in for new episodes every Friday.
0:56.5	Talk soon, Bestie.
1:01.3	Happy Friday, besties. How are we? Y'all, I have been on an East Coast tour, not a real tour.
1:13.5	I don't throw tomatoes and stones at me please i i haven't gone on podcast tour yet i've just been i've been on the move okay
1:20.1	i feel like when you're outside of california when you're outside of l a it's so much
1:25.2	easier to get around to different places.
1:28.5	And like, once I get to the East Coast, because obviously I'm from here, there's a lot to do here,
1:34.2	I'm planning a wedding on the East Coast, I'm, you know, doing home renovations.
1:40.0	I'm doing a lot. I'm doing a lot. My family's here. So like I've been just like boom, boom, boom.
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